Hi, I'm Kelsi.
I've spent more than twenty years sitting with families in pain.
The kind of pain that doesn't have a clean before-and-after. The kind that lives in the space between "I love them" and "I can't do this anymore."
Estrangement, distance, the slow fade of a relationship that used to feel easy — these aren't things you fix with one conversation or one technique. They're tangled. Layered.
My work isn't about telling you what to do. It's about helping you see clearly — the pattern you're caught in, the part you're playing in it (without shame), and what's actually possible from here. You don't have to untangle it alone.
There isn't one right outcome.
I believe love is the most vital force there is. When it stops flowing — between mothers and daughters, sisters and brothers, fathers and sons — something in a person goes quiet. Helping it move again is my slice of making this world a more peaceful place.
Love moving again doesn't always mean back together.
I don't promise reconciliation. I don't assume every relationship should be repaired. And I don't require you to know what you need before you begin.
Some people come to me and discover they want to find their way back. Some discover they need to stop waiting. Some discover something in between, or something they didn't have words for when they walked in. What I do is help you see what's happening — in the relationship, and in you — clearly enough to choose.
The choosing stays yours.
Untangle. Understand. Get clear. Then decide what comes next.
Hundreds of families, over two decades.
Not conflict in general. Families specifically: parents and adult children, siblings, the relationships you can't resign from.
What those years taught me is that the tangle is almost always older than the fight that seems to have caused it. I have rarely met an estrangement that was actually about the thing everyone was arguing about.
Certified Success Coach — The Alchemy Institute
Certified Hypnotherapist (CHt)
Let Go Coaching is a coaching practice. It isn't therapy and isn't a substitute for it, and I don't diagnose or treat mental health conditions. If I think something would be better supported by individual therapy, I'll tell you and help you find someone. Because coaching isn't licensed the way therapy is, I can work with people anywhere.
Not sure where to start? Bring the complicated relationship to an Untangling Session — 90 minutes to slow it down and look at what's actually happening.